We remain in Texas while awaiting Ron's second cataract surgery on June 11.
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Ron, Cynthia, Jon and photo of flowers
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31 May: Here we are at the end of May, with Ron having one eye seeing astoundingly well, and looking forward to incredible vision following cataract surgery #2 on 11 June. Cynthia completed 14/18 weeks of upper body fitness reaching 15 reps and increased machine weights per machine and free weights. It is mid morning, and we are exercised, oatmealed, and decided to walk in the humidity now rather than waiting until tonight. 6.45 miles! Hurrah to #14/18!
30 May: (MEDICAL) Here we are running out of May space on a rainy can’t walk day. I guess we will just have to work on James Lea! Hmmm! Ron thought the rain should stop, and just like that, it did! We were out the door by 8:45 AM. In the afternoon, we dropped off the baptismal gown to be embroidered, stopped at the bank, picked up RX, and we shopped at Walmart. Ron finished one more appendix. The lovely day was completed by an evening walk along the lakeshore. 6.0 miles
29 May: 4:21 AM, wide-awake because we went to bed so early! Ron said, “Let’s get up and get our walk done before it is too hot.” At 6:24, we were exercised, oatmealed, and on the trail. Despite a balmy temperature of 71 degrees, it was humid; Cynthia worked out at the fitness center, and we fell asleep upon our return home. After an afternoon working on James Lea, we walked the Breakwater. 6.06 miles week #14/18.
28 May: Ron enjoyed sleeping after no-sleep in the hospital; he ate breakfast for lunch. Cynthia was awake at 5:30 AM to get ready for the trip to see Corrie and family, taking along banana/oatmeal cookies, waffle cones and chocolate ice cream to celebrate summer birthdays! A fun time was had by all of the survivors. Cynthia was very thankful to have survived the drive in heavy rain, and very grateful it was dry returning home safely. That was her last driving trip to Bryan unless she changes to a Tesla self-driving car in a couple of years. We walked to the lake, and Cynthia started week #14 of 18 in the fitness center with 15 reps each exercise. She is now totally exhausted with plans to go to sleep after our second walk. We enjoyed a Gorgeous sunset on our breakwater walk. 6.0 miles.
27 May: MEDICAL Ron was discharged this AM after an echocardiogram ordered by the cardiologist. We don’t know why his pain in the back has returned; it might be a pinched nerve. We are home and exhausted. Ron still decided to walk to the lake and back to try to exercise off some of the ice cream he ate to celebrate so many years of ice cream abstinence. Now that he has splurged well, he begins the next multiple years of abstinence.
26 May: MEDICAL. Cynthia asked Ron if we should try going for our walk despite the forecast of rain. Ron said, “I want to go to ER! Whaaat? Ron was having a pain above his waist on the right side for a week. We quickly went to ER at Woodlands Methodist 35 miles away. He will have more tests. Ron was admitted after the Dr saw an abnormal EKG. He appears to be fine, he is cheery, as normal. Cynthia abandoned Ron and fled home with her son Jon who happened to be nearby when she texted him her predicament of needing a ride home to the condo as darkness and rainstorms approached, especially since the ER nurse reported it to be unlikely that the hospital would have a room for Ron. And, although the hospital did find a room for Ron about the time Cynthia arrived back at the condo, he still didn't sleep much if any. And it is Memorial day, not a day to commemorate steaks and hotdogs and beer and chips. It is not the day to raise our glasses to our gluttony. Monday is the day we say a prayer and remember all those who gave their lives for the American republic. A republic, said Dr. Benjamin Franklin, if you can keep it.
Can we keep it?
That’s up to you. But they died trying to keep it. In all the cemeteries of American war dead across the world, among the white markers and crosses across the landscape, row after row here, in France, everywhere, it is held in a language unspoken by the political class, but perhaps you can feel it all the same:
Author, John Kass Podcast, published Sunday, 25 May 2025
25 May, Sunday: Hmmm! Did the rest of the world know tomorrow is Memorial Day? We thought we had a week left! Worship was great this AM. We had brunch at “The Oscars.” The 93 degree heat prevented an afternoon walk. Instead, we worked on projects. (Hi Barb W) Ron has completed the appendices (Volume II) apart from adding some source citations and page numbers. Volume I needs PPI changes on appendices in the book, plus repagination. Each step seems monumental. Our walk tonight was only 2.5 Miles.
24 May: Goodness, but it is humid on our early morning walk! Cynthia completed week #13/18 doing upper body workout at the fitness center. We spent the afternoon on our projects. Ron has headphones on listening to music with a perpetual smile while he is working on anything but James Lea. While he is reformatting the appendices to 200 PPI, the smile fades. We walked the breakwater at sunset tonight enjoying the Momma Mallard ducks with their babies, live music at the grill, with hundreds of folks gathered to listen and eat. 6.6 miles.
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Hi Cynthia, I don't recognize this view over the breakwater. |
23 May: Our new normal is getting up in the dark so we can do our exercises, eat and walk early, like 8:45 AM with hot steam rising off the lake and pouring down our faces. Yes, it is hot and humid. Welcome to Texas. Ron is organizing materials to go into a box. Cynthia is organizing the meditations to be sent to the publisher. She discovered a shortage of ten meditations; it will be a small book with 52 meditations titled Sunday Offering. Perhaps there are more to be discovered on Facebook. We walked the Breakwater after the thunderstorm stopped. The colors were magnificent, emerald green grass with a Cerulean blue sky melting into the lake water and brilliant yellow sun sinking into the horizon. 5.84 total miles.
22 May: We walked at 9:30, but it was hot and humid returning home. Cynthia is in the 13th week of upper body workouts. Last night, Ron did not sleep well. He is napping this afternoon while carpenters are pounding away outside. Ron is revisiting the appendices, making certain all of the source citations are done and all of the images are @200 DPI. Cynthia cleaned the condo and Ron vacuumed. We walked a total 6.52 Miles.
21 May: MEDICAL We drove to Brenham for a follow-up on Ron's eye. Cynthia was once again willing to ride passenger while Ron drove "home." We stopped at Cypress Methodist Hospital to see Julie who has severe pancreatitis.
20 May: 5.99 Miles
19 May: MEDICAL We got up early and were prepared to walk as we came into the open and discovered too much wind that might blow dust or dirt into Ron's eye. Dr. Beim forbade Ron from getting anything into the eye, and the renewed eyesight is so very precious that Ron actually exercised good judgement and turned back into the condo. About noon, Cynthia drove to her dental follow up. Then we ate until too much overfull at Jason's Deli, shopped at ALDI, shopped at Walmart, and returned to condo in time for Bill O'Reilly, our "date night" entertainment. Ron mailed three checks and postcards, leaving only two more items to mail soon.
18 May, Sunday: We got to church during the pastor's announcements, so by Ron's definition, we were on time. We enjoyed fellowship conversation afterwards, but none of the snacks met our dietary restrictions. Elaine is using a walker today. She thought she didn't need to do physical therapy once she was discharged. Ron told her in no uncertain terms that physical therapy is for the rest of your life, and with luck and the grace of God, it will be a long, active life.
17 May: Ron was appreciated as the token male at the DAR meeting in Chappell Hill this morning. Cynthia has been absent for eighteen years, but some ladies remembered her or had heard her name. At show and tell time, she reported her seven patriots and how Lawrence Bankston was miraculously reinstated. The salmon salad at Bevers Kitchen was delicious and the company invigorating. After Wednesday, Cynthia is giving up her car keys apart from driving a short distances.
16 May: MEDICAL. Ron walked this morning while Cynthia went to an appointment with Dr Sharpless; afterwards, she luxuriated with a manicure and pedicure. She was busy: picked up the dry cleaning, bought more bananas to make oatmeal cookies, filled a RX at Lakeside Pharmacy, and managed to fill the car with gas at the very inconvenient Chevron gas station where she survived crossing three lanes of traffic to exit to the north. Home now, but, Shhh! Ron is napping. Ron aged 50 years once he looked into the mirror with improved eyesight and saw all his wrinkles and age lines for the first time. Cynthia told him he looks like a hunky Secret Service agent with the dark glasses. We are exhausted.
15 May: MEDICAL At 8 AM, Dr. Beim removed the packaging, and Ron was amazed at how well he can now read fine print. That noxious double vision is entirely gone from the left eye. As we drove back to the Comfort Inn, the amazement grew as he now reads road signs, street signs, billboards and names of businesses along the road, none of which were previously decipherable. We ate breakfast, packed our gear, and Cynthia insisted on driving back to the condo despite Ron's offer to leave the driving to me. Compounding his amazement, he can now read the computer screen without first enlarging the print 20x. He is literally flabbergasted and overawed. It is nothing short of an absolute miracle. (Cynthia is encouraging Ron to rest!) We walked to the fitness center, and Cynthia did her upper body workout for week #12/17.
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Ron dressed in pre-op finery |
14 May: MEDICAL. We drove from the Comfort Inn to the Bellville hospital, arriving at 8:30 AM. Checking in at a smaller hospital is so much more pleasant than the huge hospitals in Houston. The surgery was perfect. We had lunch at the Gathery (click here) in Bellville with Samantha L. and her son Cross, followed by a short walk to HEB for an ice cream celebration, three pints of Blue Bell. 🎉
13 May: MEDICAL. We are exercised, oatmealed, walked, and showered before we drove to Brenham, TX to stay at the Comfort Inn for two nights. Ron's cataract surgery #1 is at 9 AM tomorrow morning. Cynthia began her fitness workout week #12 of 17. Ron decided that a stop at Blue Bell Creamery, the ice cream capital of the world, was a fitting birthday gift. We sampled seven different flavors. Blueberry Cobbler was Ron's favorite; butter pecan was Cynthia's. 5.14 miles
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Carb loading pre-op |
12 May: Hurray, hurray for the 12th of May, our 14th wedding anniversary, and Ron’s 78th birthday! (He can't even count that high any longer.) We celebrated with champagne! (Spellcheck tried three times to change the spelling to campaign.) Ron started straightening his messes so that he won't have to bend over while his eyes are healing. One goal was to get a few of the heavier boxes stashed into the storage locker. The other goal is to get several postcards and checks written and mailed. 6.47 miles
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Ron, Cynthia, Jon and photo of flowers |
11 May, Sunday, Mother’s Day: We enjoyed a great sermon by the interim pastor at worship. Jon liked the new pastor, and we enjoyed lunch with Jon at Oscar's afterwards. We got home from church and napped for a bit in the afternoon. Ron is trying to get recycling reorganized in the spare bedroom so that he can move heavier boxes into the storage locker before his surgeries.
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Cynthia & flowers from her children |
10 May: Mobile windshield repair arrived by nine-fifteen to repair a chip in the car’s windshield. Son Jon arrived soon after with a beautiful bouquet of flowers from all of Cynthia’s children. Cynthia is one happy girlie. Ron worked on the appendices. Two walks. Cynthia added a daily plank one minute long. She finished her 11th week of strength training at the fitness center; her goal is 17 consecutive weeks of strength training workouts. 7.46 miles
9 May: MEDICAL RX Our AM walk was completed by 11:30 AM and we were off to Lakeside Pharmacy, Walgreen’s, Storage Unit, Dr Sharpless, the Dry Cleaners, and Oscar’s for salmon and vegetables for lunch. Ron noticed a little chip in the windshield; a mobile repairman will arrive about nine in the AM to repair it. 7 miles.
8 May: The packing process begins six weeks ahead of departure because Ron has to move heavy boxes back into the storage unit before next Tuesday when we go to Brenham for surgery on Wednesday. We will overnight Tues and Wednesday, returning Thursday. We successfully completed two walks, closed all of the rings on the Apple Watch. 7.13 miles, plus 11th week fitness workout #2. yaay! We will rattle our tambourines, play the drum loudly, and sing a new song.
7 May: MEDICAL. As retirees, we object to arising at 5:15am, but today we had to drive to Brenham for Ron’s ophthalmologist appointment. Poor Cynthia has to drive since she refuses to ride on the motorcycle with Ron because he cannot read road signs. Everything is all set for the first surgery on May 14th, two days after his 78th birthday. Wish us luck. James Lea must be set aside until next week. We must move the heaviest boxes to the storage unit. 4.55 miles.
6 May: A rainy day is forecast, but we walked to the lake, sat on the bench, smooched, and returned home without a sprinkle. After Ron ate breakfast, we drove back to the fitness center for Cynthia’s workout week #11 of 17. Yaaaay! 4.8 miles. We shopped at WallyWorld and made it home before getting wet. Heavy rain started about five PM. Ron finished compiling Volume II although bit of editing remains. Cynthia’s excitement builds for possible publication date for James Lea by our departure date of July first.
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Baby Becks baptised by Grandmother |
5 May: Happy Cinco de Mayo! The past few weeks have been exhausting with many trips to doctors, hospitals, baptism, and extensive driving. Tonight, we will sleep early. We are tired! We did walk to the lake and back early before the rain started around 3 PM. We attempted a second walk late, but the rain resumed, so we walked on all the floors and stairs of the condo building. 5.0 miles. Great granddaughter Becks baptism was a week ago.
4 May, Sunday: Worship was followed by lunch at The Oscar’s! Pastor Mark gave a great sermon about the disciples being told to go tend the sheep. Ron worked on his Mac; Cynthia emailed folks, and then they both rested. The temperature has cooled slightly; it is time to walk. 4.76 miles
3 May: We slept late! 6.18 miles plus ending week #10/17 workout at the fitness center. The day is Glorious! Yaaay! Ron worked on James Lea. CFB has a happy ❤️
2 May: MEDICAL. Another early to rise AM to meet Jon at 7:45 to take us to the Methodist Hospital in the Woodlands for Cynthia’s endoscopy. Roxanne will pick us up at noon. All is well indeed! Cynthia’s endoscopy showed her stomach lining had a recent inflammation. EVERYTHING LOOKS GOOD. Of course, we didn't walk. Now, we will sleep.
1 May: Connie and Chris stopped to say good bye as they head home to Iowa after wintering in Texas. We are up, ready to hike, and Ron sees completion of James Lea, Vol. 1-3, in the very near future, God willing! The appendices are Vol. II, and the DNA study is Vol. III. We walked in the AM. But when we attemmped to walk out the breakwater in the PM, threatening dark clouds and lightning inspired us to boogie back to our condo. 5.32 miles. Hopefully, it will rain enough to wash the bike.